July 18th is Toss Away the "Could Haves" and "Should Haves" Day! There is not a lot of documentation on the proper way to celebrate this holiday, so we'll have to make up the rules as we go along.
1) Pull off a few squares of toilet paper. Write down all of your could'ves and should'ves. Flush the list. Now your regrets have gone to a place you can't retrieve them. Let it go!
2) Get a bucket and an eye dropper. Fill the bucket, drop by drop, with all of your could'ves and should'ves. Dump the bucket down the drain. Isn't it easier to dump the regrets?
3) Write a list of could'ves and should'ves. For every could've and should've on your list, donate one article of clothing to the Salvation Army or Goodwill. You can live with the baggage of a past you can't change, or clean house and simultaneously help someone else.
4) Find the largest vase in your home. Add one flower to the vase for every could've and should've. Can you see the beauty of your past harmonizing to create a beautiful present?